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Lydia Sugarman's avatar

Okay, now you're scaring me. I lived in SF for 15+ years. Went to countless Meetups, breakfast panels at Orrick, more than a handful of hackathons. Left two years ago because I felt dessicated. Now I'm building a startup that's gotten a lot of positive feedback FWIW. About to plunge into seed-strapping fund raising in earnest. Now I'm already feeling fucked.

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Mat Sherman's avatar

Thanks for sharing your experience. What about my post is scary to you? Very curious.

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Lydia Sugarman's avatar

I'm aware that there are unwritten rules for successful engagement in Silicon Valley. Just unsure of what they are and how to successfully negotiate them. Is there a separate set of rules for New York? Etc., etc.,

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Mat Sherman's avatar

Absolutely, every city has its own rules to learn, but there are some universal laws as well.

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